I get it — we’re grown-ups.

So many responsibilities. So many demands on our time, money, and energy!

With all that we have to do for other people… for our jobs… and for our families…

Who the HECK has time for themselves?

Moreover, who has the audacity to want BETTER for themselves?

Especially if we’ve already got our bases covered — secure home, reliable car, loyal partner, decent health… maybe even a couple weeks vacation or a lake house somewhere in there, too.

That’s awesome! If you’ve got all that great stuff, by all means, count your blessings.

But when you’re done with all that counting, how about doing some good old-fashioned imagining?

You know…

Daydreaming.

Fantasizing.

Or what we coaches like to call creative visualization.

FOR A DESIRE TO BE AUTHENTIC, IT ALWAYS HAS TO START FROM WITHIN.

I don’t care what you call your own “intentional daydreaming.” I just care that you start doing it.

Our coaching process will always start out with you imagining the “something better” than what you already have.

Because I don’t believe in EITHER/OR.

I believe in BOTH/AND.

Meaning, we can be BOTH grateful for what we already have — AND we can give ourselves permission to go after something more.

Because if I’m not mistaken…

something good PLUS something more seems like it just might add up to something EVEN BETTER.

Not “better” in the sense of keeping up with the Joneses.

Not “better” in servitude to obsessive perfectionism.

THIS IS about you, feeling better.

(And better… and better… and better… all the time! Remember: love is limitless.)

Not just “better” on vacations, or big holidays, or the one time in the week when you’re finally allowed to collapse in exhaustion.

I’m talking about YOU feeling better… every day.

That’s because every day you fulfill your commitment to your desires is a day you get to demonstrate your own strength, love, and commitment to yourself.

You’ll be seeing yourself in a whole new light…

❤️‍🔥 Powerful.

❤️‍🔥 Confident.

❤️‍🔥 Self-respecting.

❤️‍🔥 And above all, loving.

That last one will be important to remember every time you try to wriggle out of your coaching process because you feel guilty or selfish about going after your burning desires.

But let me ask you: are you really doing your loved ones (or your job) any favors when you’re relating to them from a place of depression, anxiety, boredom, or deep loneliness?

FeelING good ABOUT YOURSELF is the MOST LOVING THING YOU COULD DO FOR those you love.

And you will! Feel good about yourself, that is.

Because won’t just be in a serious relationship with your partner… your family… or your job, anymore.

To some extent, those are always going to be moving targets of fulfillment, because they exist totally independently of you.

You’ll be in a serious relationship with the most personal and authentic part of you: your desires.

You’ll be respecting and honoring yourself by believing in your own capacity to get what you want.

And you’ll be living your own personal love story every day, as you overcome your own fears, blocks, and challenges on the road to experiencing the powerful momentum of love and fulfillment.

Look, I know that you’re a grown-up. And I respect that you’re always going to be the expert on your own life!

As your coach, I come to you as an expert on the process of fulfillment.

Getting hung up in doubt about either of our roles in this coaching process is the only potential barrier to getting what you want.

All I ask is that you trust the process.

❤️‍🔥