There’s a reason the famed “midlife crisis” happens to so many people between the ages of 35 and 55. Yes, even for those who have found success in the all-important areas of work, family, finances, and health!

Midlife crises are usually triggered by a creeping awareness that our lives are either way out of balance, or that we’re missing out on something critical.

(Even if we can’t identify what that MISSING “something” is, just yet!)

But in my experience as a therapist working with individuals, families, and groups over the last ten years, I’ve learned (over and over!) what that something is.

LOVE.

Oh, I know it’s common these days for people to roll their eyes at the concept of love. They say that love is too woo-woo, elusive, or abstract of a concept to be real… let alone something they hope to seek out for themselves.

There are also plenty of people who rigidly believe that love is an action, not a feeling. So they carry out love’s so-called “marching orders” in a spirit of joyless obligation — or sometimes, even martyrdom.

Unfortunately, thOSE BELIEFS effectively close us off to TRUE love.

And yet!

I have this crazy theory that love is truly FUN.

Love is FULFILLING.

And above all…

LOVE IS LIMITLESS.

❤️‍🔥 That means that love isn’t limited to people who have found their “soulmate.”

❤️‍🔥 Love isn’t only for those who can afford to buy a buffet of luxury goods, homes, or other glittering amenities.

❤️‍🔥 Love isn’t just for people who have a super-loving (or at least, non-dysfunctional) circle of family and friends.

❤️‍🔥 And love definitely isn’t something that’s only doled out by the fickle hand of fate… or by a punishing God, or an army of angels.

LOVE IS FOR ALL OF US!

That’s because love is actually a way of living life.

❤️‍🔥 Love can be experienced and fulfilled in your relationship to your hobbies…

❤️‍🔥 Or in your relationship with your work…

❤️‍🔥 In your relationship with your community…

❤️‍🔥 Even in your relationship with the great outdoors!

But if you’re not exactly feeling the love in any or many of your relationships right now, I’m going to venture a guess about what you’ll need to experience much, much more of it.

LOVE HAS TO START WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.

Burning Desire Coaching was founded on the premise that everybody wants love, as a fundamental part of who we are as human beings.

But in order to actually FEEL the love, as a way of life?

We each have to develop a relationship with the love that’s already inside us.

No, no, I’m not talking about some pre-defined spiritual or religious ideal, here.

I’m talking about connecting to the love that defines who you are, as an individual.

And the best and simplest way to do that is to start creating a serious relationship with nothing less than…

your truest desires.

❤️‍🔥